When we hear the word intimacy we immediately think sex, or making love, even though that is a part of intimacy but there is another important part and that is emotional. Emotional Intimacy is just as important because this kind of intimacy is when you feel safe sharing your feelings with each other, even uncomfortable ones. We all have needs and a lot of times one partner is getting satisfied in an area whether sexual, or emotional and the other is not. In order to have a relationship where both partners are satisfied you have to focus on being selfless and not selfish. Join the Weber as we discuss this important and well needed subject in our Just What the Doctor Ordered book along with the Marriage Boot Camp Study Session.
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"Its not about them its about us." (01:35:18-01:36:54)
Do you think it is wise to have sex before marriage?
REFERENCE CHAPTERS AND STUDY GUIDE PAGES
JUST WHAT THE DOCTOR ORDERED Refer to chapter 2 pg. 5
MARRIAGE BOOT CAMP STUDY GUIDE Refer to pg. 1
This is a very touchy subject that some couples are going through or have been through but do not really know how to rekindle trust. I will not lie and say that if someone has hurt or mistreated you it will be easy to open up like before. It will be a challenge and forgiveness is hard but it is a choice that you will have to make for yourself as well as for your spouse. Whenever there is infidelity you actually have biblical grounds for divorce, but if you are still there then you will have to make a choice to forgive. You are about to have to go on a long journey to learn how to build the trust back that was destroyed. This is never an easy road, but it can and has been traveled before. The good part is that there has been people who have successfully made it back to the love that they had at first, so that’s the positive side. Join the Weber’s as they discuss healing for both partners and give you activities to regain that trust and security in your relationship. Get you Just What the Doctor Ordered book along with the Marriage Boot Camp Study Session and let’s get started today.
Relationships always have areas that are sensitive. You don’t know what you can say, what you can do, what lines not to cross, or what will get your mate offended. These are called boundaries and the definition is a process of determining what behavior, you will accept from others and what you will not. Boundaries include physical and emotional. In a relationship you have to know what lines not to cross, and that is for the good of both of you. As a team the key thing you both should understand that the enemy is not the two of you and communication is key. In this discuss the Weber’s will give you struggles that they endured in their relationship in this area and will give you activities that worked for them and will sure to work for you. Get your Just What the Doctor Ordered book along with the Marriage Boot Camp Study Session and let’s get started today.
FIGHTING AND CONFLICT
No two people are the same. You have two different people, with two different personalities, coming together to try and form a relationship. The bible even says that this is a great mystery. So just know that you will have conflicts, just don’t let it get out of hand. We have had times that an argument started up in our home about the number one thing, money. In a relationship you are not by yourself any more so you can no longer make single people decisions. All disagreements don’t have to become violent some can even be healthy. Join us as we discuss this major topic on intense discussion in a marriage and how it can be healthy and cause you to see yourself in a new light. Get your Just What the Doctor Ordered book along with the Marriage Boot Camp Study Session and let’s get started today.
KEEPING THE SPARKS FLYING
Everyone like to see fireworks, so how do you make them fly in your relationship? Well in our situation after being together for 35 years you would think that you have seen it all. What else can this person do to make me happy, laugh, get excited or just want to look at their face? Even though we love each other having the same routine can be boring, so we had to learn how to incorporate new things. Well some couples might say well we do go on vacation once a year but ask yourself what about the other days when vacation is over. As we discuss how to get away from the norm and do something different. We will also give you activities that you can apply to keep the sparks flying. Get your Just What the Doctor Ordered book along with the Marriage Boot Camp Study Session and let’s get started today.